A builder is someone that is approachable, understanding, willing to communicate, loves unconditionally, accepts and empathizes, expects questions and challenges and always reinforces relationships.
Building takes strength and courage to listen to those who are struggling, with love and empathy. Building requires leaders who lead with love and compassion. Building requires calm responses and honest speaking. Building requires humility to be grateful they talked to you. Building empowers those who struggle instead of making them feel weak or insignificant.