Bridge, Not a Boulder

Be a Bridge Through Healing, not a Boulder Impeding Healing “When you’re weary, feeling small; when tears are in your eyes, I will dry them all. I’m on your side. Oh when times get rough, and friends just can’t be found; Like a bridge over troubled water, I will lay me down…” Simon & Garfunkle, Bridge...
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Fearing What You’re Accustomed to Creates Anger “As I experience certain sensory input patterns my mental pathways become accustomed to them. The inputs eventually are anticipated and even missed when absent.” — Data, Star Trek: TNG As in any relationship, we find ourselves anticipating certain events and behaviors from ourselves and from our spouse. When...
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Living with Addiction

Living With a Spouse with Compulsion or Addiction – Walk With Them! “You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave!” — The Eagles, Hotel California Whenever we hear that someone is battling an addiction, our first thought may be “Just stop.” Other times it might be “How could they let, it...
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Self Empowerment

Strive For Self Empowerment “…More ‘love inspired’ change within…” — Kenneth Cope Many times in our relationships we want more: more “us” time… more communication… commitment… more [insert here]. When our spouse or loved one does something you do not like or agree with, we want the change in behavior to happen more quickly. What...
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Helping Your Son

Helping Your Son Heal From Porn Does your son struggle with porn or other compulsive technology issues? The topic of PORN is like a live wire discussion many shy away from. One parent recently said, “It’s too hard for me to even talk about. I just hope my kids will make the right decisions.”  Another...
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